We have always known that people conform to their social group / current culture. We’ve never really known the reason why. We strongly suspect that people fear:
- being the odd one out
- drawing attention to themselves by being different
- the social cost of being independent of the majority
In 2005 Gregory Berns (an Emory University neuroscientist) updated this experiment with the help of brain-scanning technology. An fMRI scanner took snapshots of the volunteers’ brains as they either conformed or broke with group opinion. He discovered why people conform to the group by visualizing the effected part of the brains’ activity.
- “The fMRI scans reveal that those who capitulated to the group actually experienced a shift in perception. If the group insisted that a shape was square, suggestible subjects literally “saw” a square.” ** In other words, they were not aware how much their peers had influenced them.
So what does this information have to do with teaching health and engaging our students? People of all ages need to look inside of themselves and decide
- Am I susceptible to social pressure?
- Will I change my values to meet the expectations of others
- Can I hang with a group but still maintain my individuality? (I don’t have to do, or think the way they do.)
The wise and learned college students of my day believed, marched and yelled “You can’t trust anyone over 30”. Those over 30 years included their parents, grandparents, aunts/uncles who lived through a depression from 1929 to 1941. They fought / sacrificed through WW2 (many of us did not know that America fought / defeated two evil empires who wanted to dominate the world. Our high school American history classes didn’t have time to cover the depression, World War 2, or the Korean War.) My parent’s generation came home from war, where they saw a lot of death and destruction; and their greatest desire was to build. They built families with children (a celebration of life), they built American industry and rebuilt a devastated Europe and Asia. Appreciation is based on age and experience. My generation only experienced plenty, peace and opportunity until Vietnam and the rebellion began.
Today’s generation is repeating history. They are looking at their parents and seeing them as outdated. They have little appreciation for why their parents’ generation is the way they are. Without life experience it is difficult to recognize values from the past. I know that looking back I see much more value in what was accomplished in the rebuilding time. Without all those accomplishments, my generation would not have so much that we are taking advantage of today. Without traveling abroad, it is very difficult to understand that most people in the world do not have the opportunities or advantages that we live with every day.
For our students to accomplish their hopes and dreams, it is important:
- their peer group have similar goals and ethics / morals
- each individual student have the ability to think for themselves
- each individual be willing to not conform to the group or current cultural narrative — pain of independence
- if necessary walk away — pain of independence to the power of 10
Here is an example of social pressure you didn’t see coming. Did you know that our language reflects value? Currently, purity is a big selling point. Go to the grocery store and you will find fruits, veggies, meats with no additives, for healthy eating we are encouraged to eat whole foods instead of processed foods, and organic foods are supposed to be better for you. Purity of the food we eat has great value. In China, there is a huge and growing market for supplements and vitamins from the U.S. because the U.S. Food & Drug Administration requires manufactures to test products for their purity. We pay more for authentic 100% real virgin olive oil because it is pure, that is, not cut with cheaper oils. For some reason brides still prefer white dresses and First Communion dresses are white. White suggests purity. The expression pure in heart generally means clean, blameless, unstained from guilt, or innocent. There is a purity movement in language with everything except human beings. When was someone described admiringly as a virgin / chaste? There was a time when physical purity was an absolute. The phrase “losing one’s virginity” now has a ring of a heavy duty ordeal, something to get rid of. We get rid of things we don’t value. How is virginity portrayed on TV movies? Do you remember this news item?
- There is a $1 million bounty on TimTebow’s virginity? Why was it so important for some people to sabotage Tim’s goal of abstinence until marriage?
Our language and some social settings reflect the value of words such as pure, purity, chaste.
- When these words are applied to men and women, why are these same words treated as laughable?
What happens if you disagree?
From the Asch and Burns’ conformity experiments, we know in groups people shift their perceptions. The media (music, TV, movies) has a big audience. Discuss with your students -- Ideas / behaviors currently in the media (viewed on TV shows in movies, or music videos) that did not exist during their parents’ teenage or young adult years. In other words, your student’s parents may not like the content and maybe your students, like me so many years ago, are rolling their eyes because of their parent’s lameness.
Ask your students:
- If their grandparents would have regarded these behaviors as pornographic and / or depraved.
- Do you regard these ideas / behaviors so normal that you will participate when given the opportunity?
- Will you be one of those independent souls who walk a different path?
* The Asch Conformity Experiments by Kendra Cherry 07/09/2016 link below: https://www.verywell.com/the-asch-conformity-experiments-2794996
** The anatomy of conformity March 7, 2006 link below: http://scienceblogs.com/neurontic/2006/03/07/the-anatomy-of-conformity/
*** When people are free to do as they please, they usually imitate each other — Eric Hoffer author of The True Believer link below: